Linda Clement was nursing her daughter, Fiona, in a restaurant when an older
couple stopped at her table. The husband looked a bit embarrassed as his wife
said to Clement: “That’s disgusting. People are eating here.”
Clement looked up at her, looked down at Fiona and replied: “Yeah, her
too.” As Clement recalls: “The little old ladies at the next table
all cracked up.”
Clement’s encounter with disapproval over breastfeeding in public ended
with laughter, but for other women the experience has been more frustrating
— sometimes even humiliating. It can be daunting for a new mother who
wants to be out and about with her baby. You can’t help but be a little
anxious: Will you offend others? Will you be asked to leave? What should you
do?
Rest assured about one thing: The law is on your side. The Ontario and British
Columbia Human Rights Commissions have specifically identified women’s
right to breastfeed in any places where they have a right to be.
In other provinces, every case that has been brought to a human rights commission
has been decided in favour of the breastfeeding mother and baby.
Breastfeeding in public has definitely become more common in recent years,
but Pat Millar, a La Leche League leader in Dartmouth, NS, says it’s still
not as readily accepted as it needs to be. “Breastfeeding mothers need
to be able to go about their normal lives without worrying about comments from
others or whether someone will be upset that they aren’t covered up enough,”
explains Millar.
It’s one thing to know that you’d probably win a case in front
of a human rights commission, and another thing trying to latch on a crying
baby while avoiding glares from people around you.