Whether you’re trying for your first or fourth, or when you decide it’s
time for a(nother) baby, you want to get pregnant ASAP (if not sooner). You
could increase your chances if you know when you’re ovulating. Here are
a few indicators and things to remember that can help you conceive.
Though it’s not an exact science, if you have a regular cycle (now’s
the time to start recording your cycle if you don’t already — day
one is the first day of your period), you can certainly narrow down ovulation
with this method. For example, if you have a 30-day cycle, you should ovulate
around day 16. (Regardless of the length of your cycle, you ovulate fourteen
days before the start of your next period.) So if you start having intercourse
every other day from day 10 or 11 (many doctors suggest every other day is best
so your partner can produce as much sperm as possible), you’ll cover your
most fertile time. If your cycle is irregular it will be difficult to pinpoint
ovulation by counting days.
(Our Ovulation
Predictor is a handy tool to use if you want to get an idea of when you’ll
likely ovulate next. Just put in the first day of your last period and the usual
number of days in your cycle, and you’ll get a five-day window of your
most fertile time of the month, plus your most fertile days for your next three
cycles.)
Some women can actually feel when they’re ovulating because of lower
abdominal cramping on one side, also called “mittleschmerz.” (German
for “middle pain.”) The pain ranges from mild aching to sharp pangs
and can last up to a few hours and sometimes days. It’s said that this
discomfort happens mainly because of the pressure that’s caused when the
ovum is released and the membranes stretch.
Monitoring cervical mucus (with clean fingers or toilet paper) is a simple
way to track ovulation. Once you’ve checked it and recorded your findings
for a few months, you’ll notice that cervical mucus changes during your
cycle. Here’s what to look for.
After your period ends (low chance of conceiving): Dry, lack
of cervical mucus
Approach ovulation (chance of conceiving): Mucus will increase.
Colour will be white or yellow and the consistency will be sticky. Mucus will
not stretch between fingers.
Around ovulation (high chance of conceiving): Lots of mucus.
Clear, thin, slippery and stretchy. Resembling raw egg whites. Mucus will stretch
between thumb and fingers without breaking. This is your most fertile time (sperm
can move more easily through the cervix with the help of this mucus). Sperm
can survive in this mucus for up to a few days.
After ovulation (low chance of conceiving): Amount of mucus
decreases, it gets sticky again and does not stretch.
Note: There could be other reasons for changes in cervical fluid, such as infections
and medications.
As for cervical position, when you’re ovulating your cervix will soften,
rise, widen and feel wet (this stage is known as SHOW — soft, high, open and
wet). After ovulation your cervix hardens (it’s said to feel like the
tip of your nose) and lowers. Ask your doctor if you have questions about checking
cervical position.
Taking your temperature first thing in the morning is a good indicator of ovulation.
Keep a thermometer (a basal body thermometer is best; they’re available
at pharmacies) on your night table and take and record your temperature before
getting out of bed, eating or drinking. Temperatures usually range between 96°F
and 98°F before ovulation. Changes in hormone levels caused by ovulation
make your basal body temperature (BBT) rise slightly by about 0.5° to 1.5°.
You’ll see the change two or three days after you’ve ovulated, so
the key is to record and look for patterns so you can anticipate ovulation if
you’re using this method. Be sure to note if you’re not feeling
well, extra stressed, exhausted, etc. on your chart — these factors can all influence
your temperature. Your temperature will remain higher until day one, then it
will dip and the cycle starts again. If you’re pregnant, your temperature
will continue to stay elevated.
If you’re having a hard time reading your body’s ovulation signs
or you have an irregular cycle, you might want to try an OPK. These often pricey
kits can are available at drugstores and measure the surge in luteinizing hormone
(LH) in your urine. This hormone causes the ovaries to release an egg. The 12
to 36 hours from the time you test positive for ovulation is the best time to
conceive.
Here are a few more symptoms to watch out for. Note that these signs could
be caused by many other factors such as medication, stress, weight loss and
gain, etc:
Premenstrual symptoms: Some women say they notice breast tenderness,
headaches, bloating and moodiness around ovulation
Increase in libido: Some women enjoy an increased sex-drive
at their most fertile time
Nausea: Women who are particularly sensitive to changes in
hormones could experience nausea around ovulation